Online Bullying "They Won't Tell You"
When Something Goes Wrong Online, Know What to Do Next
Online bullying isn't limited to cruel comments anymore. Group chats, fake accounts, AI-generated images, deepfakes, impersonation and online harassment can escalate quickly — and children don't always tell their parents when something is wrong.
They Won't Tell You is a practical field guide designed to help parents and carers recognise the warning signs, start the right conversation and take sensible action when a child is experiencing online harm.
Written for parents and carers of children roughly 8–17 years old, the guide assumes no technical knowledge and focuses on practical steps you can actually use.
Inside you'll discover:
- How to recognise the warning signs of online bullying and harassment
- Why children often hide online problems from their parents
- How AI-generated harassment, deepfakes and fabricated screenshots are being used
- What to say when you suspect something is wrong
- A practical first 48-hour action plan
- How to capture and preserve useful evidence
- How to report harmful content and pursue takedowns
- Guidance for dealing with schools
- When an incident may need to be treated as more than ordinary bullying
- Platform guidance covering Discord, Instagram, TikTok, Snapchat, Roblox, Fortnite and group chats
- Steps for helping a child recover after an incident
- What to do if your child is the one responsible
- Practical checklists, scripts, an evidence log and school email template
The guide is designed to be useful before a problem occurs as well as during one — giving parents practical language, tools and a clearer understanding of the online environments their children use.
Because when your child finally tells you something is wrong, knowing what to do next matters.
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This guide is an educational resource and does not replace professional medical, psychological or legal advice. If a child is in immediate danger or experiencing serious distress, seek appropriate professional or emergency assistance.